To a person in your buddy list Simply choose someone from your buddy list and send the message
To a person who is not on your buddy list Go to the nickpage of this member and click on messenger under "contact".
You may add this member to your buddy list at a later stage.
The system checks automatically if you have any new messages. If you
do have a new message, the messenger will pop up
automatically (pop up) and the Icon "New Message" flashes.
In your settings, you can adjust the time the system checks your messages.
Standard setting is 3 minutes. To adjust this, go to your messenger
settings.
New Messages can be recognized through the icon that looks like an
unopened envelope. Once you have read the message, the system will
delete this message after 5 days automatically.
To add a new Buddy, click on this icon:
Neuer Buddy
[ Green ] User is Online
[ Red ] User is Offline
[ Brown ] User is invisible
Means, that the user could be on- or offline.
"Ignore"
You can block unwanted messages from certain users,
with this "Ignore" Function.
Note: You cannot ignore users on your buddy list. You would have to
delete this buddy first and then put her on ignore.
"Remove Ignore"
By clicking on this smiley, you can remove ignored
Users from your "Ignore List" and you will receive their
messages again.
Edit
You can give your Buddy a new name. This will only be
visible for you.
"Who is online" displays, who is currently surfing on SHOE. To
send a message to other users, go to their nickpage and send her a message
either by Instant Messenger, Email or leave a note in her personal guestbook.
If you are sending messages to a person frequently, it is easier, if you
add her to your buddy list.
Check "Buddy List" for further information
on how to send a message.
Are you looking for women in your area? Click on "Search User"
and all members in your country will be displayed. If you are interested in
browsing profiles from other countries, click on "Change
SHOE-lalallalaland" at the top right hand corner and choose a different
country.
Every User on SHOE has their own nickpage with a personal guestbook. To
edit or update your personal information on your nickpage, go to: MySHOE >
Personal Settings or click on "View my Profile" on your messenger.
Q: How can I stop the messenger from constantly popping up? (Most unwanted if my boss is standing right behind me...) A: Go to the Messenger
Settings and raise the minutes for the Check Mail. Of course, you can
check your messages independent of the automatic check, by clicking on
"Check Mail".
Q: The font size is too small for me. How can I change that?
A: The font size can be changed easily in your browser to adapt your
personal need. This is how it's done:
- Internet Explorer: View > Textsize
- Netscape or Mozilla: View > Textzoom > bigger or smaller
- Opera: > View > Zoom > Choose zoom
Q: Which rules apply for sending messages?
A: The general rules of SHOE International apply. [ Read
] Especially: No spamming! No advertising!