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Rules


snoops The official rules / Netiquette of the  SHOE International Network

The SHOE Community has a well-established and friendly community which is intended to offer lesbians, bisexual and transgendered women the opportunity to find and offer friendship and real support, to exchange personal experiences and to simply have fun being a dyke. It is therefore our duty to keep this community a safe and welcoming place for all our members. We have had several years experience of managing this community (our first launch was in 1997) and these rules have evolved with our experience to ensure the SHOE Community remains a friendly, fun and supportive environment for everyone. The rules govern your use of the SHOE International Network forums, board, mailinglists and chatroom specifically, but are also relevant to member content areas (nickpages, instant messenger, photo gallery posts)- they're mostly about common sense and courtesy, but your adherence to them will help to ensure that everyone has a positive experience on SHOE.

Most important rule: The SHOE-Teams decision is final. The SHOE-Team (About us) can edit or delete messages as we see fit, it is our sole discretion. This is for your benefit and is to ensure the community stays friendly, fun and supportive. If you feel unable to accept this rule, then we politely request that you find what you seek in communities elsewhere. 



General Information about the SHOE Membership

  • The member area is for women only - with the exception of Promoter Profiles to list events in the SHOE-Guide
  • False and / or  invalid profiles will be deleted
  • Only one profile may be registered per person
  • Do not impersonate another person
  • Disclaimer
  • Privacy Statement

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Houserules of the SHOE Community

Remember that the people behind the nicknames are real human beings with real feelings. Treat others the same way you want to be treated. We encourage a healthy exchange of opinions and disagreements are allowed! By all means challenge an opinion – but please do it respectfully. 

  • Do not flame or personally insult another user. Please do not harass, threaten or attack anyone, or behave in any way that would cause annoyance or distress to other users. This includes the use of offensive nicknames and usernames.
  • Do not try to force your opinion on other users. Remember the world is a big place full of very different people. They may have different views and opinions. Respect them! Attack the issue, not the person.
  • Do not recruit our members to join another website forum or chat group, whether personal or otherwise. If you are approached to join another group/site as a result of your SHOE membership/posts on our network please advise us. 
  • Any type of advertising is strictly prohibited. Wish to advertise with us? Download our Mediakit today!
  • Please use the SHOE Guide to list your organisation, Bar, Club, Event. It's free! Any information that can be posted in the SHOE Guide will get deleted if posted anywhere else. This goes also for non-profit organisations, sportsclubs, choirs etc.
  • Organisations of any type, yes non-profit too, are not allowed to recruit new members via SHOE. Use the SHOE Guide to get listed.
  • And finally... Don't trust ANYBODY enough to give them any personal information - not even email addresses. To stay in contact with other members, please use your nickpage or the instant messenger until you feel like you can trust them.

Abuse of the SHOE Houserules / Netiquette will be handled as follows:

  • 1 Warning = Yellow Card
    Action taken: None. User will receive a formal warning.
  • 2nd Warning
    Action taken: User will be banned for 1 month from the website. User will get notification of this action by email.
  • 3rd Warning = Red Card
    Action taken: User will be banned permanently from the Website. User will get notification of this action by email.

These warnings/actions apply to ALL members. Basic and SHOELace Members alike. We will not make a difference between free and paid membership.
If you break the SHOE Houserules you have to deal with the consequences.

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Houserules on posting messages in general

  • Do not spam! You WILL get banned immediately for lifetime! 
  • Do not post any links to other websites except where indicated. This includes private homepages, organisations, events - no matter if they are non-profit or not.
  • The publication of messages with explicit, sexual content, racist, sexist remarks, libel and other offensiveness are not tolerated.
  • Do not post anything, that might hurt somebody elses feelings, do not laugh at anyone
  • Commercial messages (Advertising) of any type, the promotion of events, yes non-profit too, are strictly prohibited. If you wish to advertise with us, please download our Mediakit. If you have an event you want to publish, please go to the SHOE-Guide.
  • Messages from organisations, yes non-profit too, are not permitted. 
  • Organisations Journalists and TV researchers must not post requests for participants on our network. For permission to post your request, please email the SHOE-Team
  • Do not post chain letters, promote pyramid schemes or recruit members for any 'network marketing' businesses.
  • Do not write in capital letters. It is considered screaming.

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Photo Upload

Photos with any of the following content will be deleted without comment. We also reserve the right to delete any photos, we think are dubious or/and unsuitable for SHOE. Please do not email us asking why your photo has been deleted.

General:

  • By uploading photos you declare your consent for publication
  • No photos to which you do not have the "rights" to use (copyright infringement)
  • You are allowing SHOE to use the photos uploaded for use of promotion of their online community.
  • Photos with pornographic content incl. photos of nudes, breast shots, bathing suits
  • Any image that is against the law and or which depicts cruelty and or inappropriate behavior
  • SHOE reserves the right to delete any photos without comment.
  • If you are not sure about your image, please do not post it.

Photos on your Nickpage:

The following photos may not be uploaded:

  • Photos that include other people (and/or children). You have to be pictured alone
    Exception: MySHOE Photoalbum*
  • Photos with Email Addresses or Websites (Links, URLs)
  • Photos with pornographic content incl. photos of nudes, breast shots, bathing suits
  • Any image that is against the law and or which depicts cruelty and or inappropriate behavior
  • Body without head
  • Drawings, Comics and/or Star-Portraits
  • Photo cutouts which are meaningless
  • Photos where you are pictured too small or only parts of you (just your eyes for instance)
  • Photos that have been manipulated so that no-one can tell what it should be

* MySHOE Photo Album: Upload more photos of yourself, your friends and/or family (SHOELace only)

Please make sure, you have selected the right category (Baby Photo, Current Photo, MyPet etc...)

Ok and now take me there >> "MySHOE" Photo Upload | MySHOE Photo Album

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Forum

Messages with any of the following content will be deleted without comment. We also reserve the right to edit / delete any postings, we think are dubious or/and unsuitable for SHOE. Please do not email us asking why your post has been deleted.

  • Anything already listed under: Houserules of the SHOE Community and Houserules on posting messages in general
  • Share-a-Ride offers and requests have to be posted in our special share-a-ride section of the website.
  • Surveys
  • Do not post messages more than once. Do not flood threads with off topic messages. Go to the specifically indicated "Chat-Threads".
  • For Job Offers/Seeking, Apartment offers/Seeking, Selling, Seeking or Trading Stuff, please use our Local Board > Classifieds .
  • Links which serve the purpose of the discussion i.e. information are allowed. Strictly prohibited are advertising links, "Check out my homepage" type of links, Event information and such like.

Ok and now take me there >> Forum

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Personal Ads / Classifieds / Mailinglist

Messages with any of the following content will be deleted without comment. We also reserve the right to edit / delete any postings, we think are dubious or/and unsuitable for SHOE. Please do not email us asking why your post has been deleted.

  • Anything already listed under: Houserules of the SHOE Community and Houserules on posting messages in general
  • Filthy, explicit Sex Ads
  • Sex Ads that involve men (For instance: Bisexual User looking for another woman for threesomes with her Hubby and such like)
  • Posting ads for third parties
  • For Jokes, Quotes, Poetry and Short Stories, please use our forum.
  • For Non-gay related politics, War, Butch/Femme, Bisexuality and Non-gay related Religion, please use the forum. 
  • Emails directed at just one person. If it is part of an on-going discussion, then that's fine. Otherwise please contact the person through her personal nickpage
  • Share-a-Ride offers and requests have to be posted in our special share-a-ride section of the website.
  • Email addresses and phone numbers. You can always be contacted by your nickpage.
  • Surveys
  • Email addresses (to prevent unwanted emails and spam in your mailbox) and telephone numbers for your own safety!! Exception: Commercial Ads.

Ok and now take me there >> Classifieds & Personal Ads / Mailinglist

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Nickpages / Instant Messenger

Messages with any of the following content will be deleted without comment. We also reserve the right to edit / delete any postings, we think are dubious or/and unsuitable for SHOE. Please do not email us asking why your post has been deleted.

  • Anything already listed under: Houserules of the SHOE Community and Houserules on posting messages in general
  • Under "MyBookmarks" please note, that any links that violate the law, is infringing, racist, sexist, obscene, pornographic, harassing, defamatory or otherwise objectionable, are prohibited
  • Under "MyBlog" please do not use your blog for advertising, chatting or notices. It's a personal dairy, please use it as such.
  • Don't even think of spamming our members one-to-one. We WILL find out and you WILL get banned for spamming.

Ok and now take me there >> Nickpages / Instant Messenger

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Chat 

Please read our chat rules/netiquette by clicking on this link.

Ok and now take me there >> SHOE IRC Chat

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Blogs 

Messages with any of the following content will be deleted without comment. We also reserve the right to edit / delete any postings, we think are dubious or/and unsuitable for SHOE. Please do not email us asking why your post has been deleted.

  • Anything already listed under: Houserules of the SHOE Community and Houserules on posting messages in general
  • Please do not use your blog for advertising, chatting, newbie introductions, personal/friendship ads or event infos. Do not publish links to your other blog(s). Use this one instead.
  • It's a personal dairy. Tell us about your day, your thoughts.

Ok and now take me there >> Blogs

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Report Abuse

Please report abuse! It is vital to keep this community safe and welcome. Report abuse directly to the SHOE-Team by sending email including the abusers username, reason of reporting and if possible copy/paste the offending text in your email. We thank you!

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Help / FAQ

Got more questions? Please check out our extensive Helpfile / FAQ (Frequently Asked Questions) or visit our User Support Forum.

The SHOE Community provides this service for free. Please do not abuse it.

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